Growing up I use to think hanging around others that doesn’t have what I have, was an okay thing. But getting a little older things had seemed to change noticing you are the only person in the group that’s actually winning. I’m guessing the cause of that would be, that someone in your circle see what you see, and didn’t like the appearances that you are withholding.
When someone else has noticed your value it could become crucial. Either they stick around and get to know, or simply quick judge and become jealous. I use to think it was wrong to think that way especially if a person doesn’t look a certain way, but how folks are taking the roles of being jealous on purpose, I can see why choose a different crowd to be around. But that’s not technically the real reason I should hang with people that are elevating.
People that are elevating can teach you something’s…People that are elevating don’t require much because they already see that you are elevating as well. Two minds alike can create a huge difference, matter of fact two minds alike can get the coarse rolling.
Hanging around people that are elevating is such a huge blessing, seriously it is. When that person is doing better, you do better as well. Of course have the conscience to want to live a rewarding life take heed it all starts in the mind. Ask questions, be acceptive to what it is being spoken, everyone’s walk is different so don’t take offense and still think there’s no way you can be like them. As a matter of fact, don’t never compare your life to no one else’s life neither, I wouldn’t know the struggle my friends went through, before their lives had drastically changed. People can tell you what they’ve been through which they’re testimony will still be different from yours.
As you read this take a moment a two and “THINK” about your circle of friends, as my co worker saids “how are they elevating you? What are they doing for you intimately? This moment or moments should be sensitive to you, the company you keep can bring forth an impact that will have you questioning later. Although we all are entitled to our opinions, I just want to say this: try continuing hanging out with this two different types of people…A person that stays at home unemployed in his or her mid twenties, still living at home with mommy, then try hanging out with someone that is employed, living independently, in school, or owns his or her own business. Once both courses are completed, weigh your options. Who is more of an influence on the other, who is more demanding than the other, also who’s more engaged and specially not lazier than the other. “That should be easy to debate huh?
There’s people out here loosing their lives just because of how their brains operate, it’s crazy and at the same time, it makes plenty of sense. Don’t be a fool and stick around side eyes that only sees you at a certain angle. No one wants to be happy for no one anymore, some people want the easy way out instead of doing what you did, which was “TRYING”. It seems that everyone wants popularity instead of a career…now that’s elevating, yeah only to a fool that doesn’t want to know any better.
It’s essential that we choose not to grow with non elevators, that will suck us dry. They don’t think of the time, effort and heartache that you put in, oh no, they don’t care about that. Non elevators only want what they can get. Elevate with people that are headed somewhere and that are a few or couple of steps ahead, so you can learn from them so that you can be motivated, encouraged and elevated too. There’s nothing to get jealous of when you are winning too.
