I thought of this yesterday when I was talking to my significant other, I don’t remember what was said but it made me think of my life instantly. This story sort of relates to the one I posted yesterday, I just keep being reminded to live my young life all of a sudden. I don’t know who needs to reads this, but the era of this story is saying “don’t waste your youth”. This goes for me too.
Rushing into the desirables in your life isn’t going to last very long, or maybe it will but the happiness will soon fade because there wasn’t enough time to get to learn ourselves. For example “me” I’m going to use myself as a treat statement. I was talking with my significant other about his participation with us getting married, and I just came across this feeling of heavy heartedness.
I’m a thinking so my brains mike per hour speed is against the law. But I’m thankful for this ability because just by ten seconds of me and him chatting, I realized that I wasn’t living out my young life of being free, twenty six, and basically single. Honestly friends, I’m a single woman with kids but supposedly on a contract to dedicate love to a man that’s not my husband…does that make sense?
If it doesn’t think about like this, I’m basically playing a wife’s position withholding my youth at the same time. Because once being married there’s no going on clubbing, talking to the opposite sex, strip clubs, staying out late and to break the iceberg no more cheating. No more living the single life of a free young persons.
I definitely don’t want to say that marriage alone is a huge pain and all about being an adult with numerous responsibilities, although marriage shouldn’t just be based on that foundation alone, but it also depends on how well you two collaborate with one another. There shouldn’t be no time wasted.
This is mainly why I wanted type this story, because I feel that I’m rushing to become a married woman to a man that doesn’t want to waste his youth just yet. So what does that tell me…don’t waste mine neither. Don’t wait around for anyone to want to play with you in the sandbox, when you can build your own castle and be more happy of your masterpiece.
My youth is too precious and more important to be sitting aside for any reason. Everyone is purposely living why won’t I do the same, no one is going to wait for me to begin living so why should I wait on myself to gain common sense? Just like Nike said “just do it!
