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Stop throwing yourself on those type of people that does not match your interest

By November 12, 2019No Comments

In an appointed time in life there was a moment of wanting to be accepted and liked, cool and highly favored. But the odds of becoming famous was crucially slim. You don’t have what it takes to be popular. You don’t have the body, hair, skin color, the looks nor the materialistic things that makes a person wonder around you.

That’s complete bull crap…but going with the trends has now become the ultimate norm to conquer the worlds competitions. Even when meeting a guy, he’s handsome brown skin, his voice is gentle toward the odds. When there’s a connection that has transpired, you can’t help but want more of his affection because he has abided in you, so you thought.

When similar things happens like this keeps happening and you’ve finally noticed that maybe it’s you giving off too much of yourself, you begin to wonder what was it that made him/her run from me. Is it really me is it my personality, am I rough at using my words, I’m I too nice or am I even likable. What is it about me that can’t keep a man, friends my power.

Some people that we come into connection with only be wanting one or more things. You can basically see that from the start when the both of you begin to hear each other speak, that’s called wisdom. But this ultimate thing that I’ve noticed as well especially being a woman, it’s also how you come onto people as well. You are more to blame than them because you know better.

No one wants to be taken advantage of and feeling unwanted but think about it, you’ve seen the signs that, that person just wasn’t into you and you still threw yourself onto them. You still wanted a piece of their flesh, you wanted to be that blood sucking mosquito. When are you ever going to noticed that you we’re just a fling for that moment?

You crave for acceptance from that person or people, you will do just about anything to have that gratitude. What is it about them or him that makes you so insane over them? You obviously she that he isn’t into you like you are into him. He freaking set your phone number to voicemail because he doesn’t want to talk to you. That there alone is enough advice to back off.

If he doesn’t like you then what there is it to do? Let’s no weep over spoiled milk when you can go and pour another glass. It’s not worth it it’s pointless when it clearly doesn’t even have a point. Don’t confuse yourself here and no it’s not your fault that he doesn’t like you, it’s not your fault that they don’t like you neither. You need to accept the fact that you are different from that you aren’t a easy win.