From personal experience I’ve met a couple of people that just simply doesn’t know any better. These people carry different characteristics and don’t mind living a carefree life that doesn’t hold boundaries. It’s okay for them to bully others, gossip, be mean, cheat on their partners without shame, lie, humiliate, all the wrong there is, these people don’t mind at all. No cares are given toward the victim or anything that endures their stupidity. When telling these type of people about their actions becomes pointless over time, and by their continuous behavior you will see why toxicity is into action. This very thing happens in relationships a lot especially within my personal life. Because of lack relationships are damaged goods running on low fuel and it darn sure isn’t diesel. The opposite of you your significant other, is the person that doesn’t understand the principles of being joint with someone. He/she doesn’t seem to understand that effort takes fifty percent from both sides and completion on good standards. No, saids your partner I want things to go like this, or this is how you should be, this is what should be done by you, or it’ll be easier for you to be the gullible fool and let him/or do whatever they please. Why they know that you aren’t going anywhere and the love you have for them is staying still, it won’t rock nor it won’t envy. What I’ve experienced within ones realm is his attitude toward the word no and his stubbornness. Nothing I would say didn’t matter toward how’d he was already living his life. I had a problem with everything that he said and did, he gave me reasons and allegations to my suspicion. Trust became bare love became rare and seeing him for what he preached daily, became distant. I tried molding him into the man that I wanted but I couldn’t, I couldn’t change him. Although it’s not in my power to but it still wouldn’t hurt to be an influencer. Everything I pursued in every argument didn’t change a thing, he still didn’t know any better to do better. Matter of fact he never wanted to apply to my cries as warnings on our future, he still never knew better. Fussing turned into not caring, and the sex turned into sin like it has always been. It use to be free to live and love, now it’s costing me everything, besides the children we have together I would have to look over my shoulder for the creep weapons that want to attack me. All this wouldn’t have happened if only he listened understood and took heed. These no arguments disagreements, Love, sex nor magic. I had to realize I was given my all for someone that wouldn’t walk to the corner store for me, without wanting collateral. The point of it all means, stop giving yourself away to be used brutality. That person will not understand the pain nor when to stop because it’s in their nature to keep going. Not knowing any better has been hereditary apart of DNA no one has showed them how to react to ones pain nor to have sensitivity toward the needs of others. So why shall arguing be the head of change knowing that’s not what that person understands….
