Why do some of us worry about the things that have hurt us, or what has been said toward or about us? Why can’t some of us realize that our healthy becomes involved when we stress and be depress because of another person actions. We put a lot on our minds that aren’t healthy or beneficial, and wonder why we are sick half of the time. We become so prone to the side effects and think so much on why this person feels a certain a way about us, say and do mean things toward us, instead of finding a solution to resolve such a issue. That’s what the enemy want, he wants us to worry ourselves and not overcome what we see as a mental tragedy. In the actual world some people fight back with using their words and hands to prove a point, but there’s people like me that are humble and just keep a steady emotion upon myself. Yes it hurts greatly to be mistreated and disliked, but I can’t live my life thinking about why or even thinking without asking that person, why he/she doesn’t approve of me. I am in total control of how I react to some issues, and worrying about what he/she has to say isn’t really bringing me justice. Just simply why do I even give the time to be mentally miserable over words. If someone calls us stupid, does that mean we are stupid? If someone calls you a whore, does that mean that you are a whore? We have to know ourselves before letting someone else identify you as nothing. Bump with others say? Rephrase “why do I” to “this is why”, and see the beautiful difference in why God’s chosen people are treated differently.
Latisha I love your journaling/blogs boo!!You pricked a situation up right into my š about something that happened right before Thanksgiving. Why is it people care about if they are liked or not?? Why is it so hard to remove yourself from the negativity of those who don’t have high self esteem and bring them down?? Why Why Why??
It really is a hard thing āI tell yaā but if only we could just focus on ourselves and not other peopleās stupidity, we will do just fine. Really all we have to do is be nice to our enemies and pray for them..THATāS IT!!! Donāt be a fool to their wrong doings toward us. The Lord will get them in the end, just refer your enemies to him.
Amen